{"id":56493,"date":"2025-07-16T07:07:07","date_gmt":"2025-07-16T07:07:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/visualjournalism.de\/?post_type=magazin&#038;p=56493"},"modified":"2026-07-03T20:01:01","modified_gmt":"2026-07-03T18:01:01","slug":"grenzen-zeigen","status":"publish","type":"magazin","link":"https:\/\/visualjournalism.de\/en\/magazine\/nachts\/grenzen-zeigen\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00abMan muss seine Grenzen klar zeigen\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n \n\n    <div id=\"lead-in-block_dde24a85501972ddab980ea4676ee26c\" class=\"block-lead-in typo--default font-size--xl has-spacing--m width--default\">\n        <h1>\u00abMan muss seine Grenzen klar zeigen\u00bb<\/h1>\n<p>Unter der Woche arbeitet Selma in der Kita, am Wochenende an der Clubt\u00fcr. \u00dcber Respekt, Sicherheit und das Behaupten als Frau im Nachtleben.<\/p>\n<div class=\"entry-meta\">\r\n    <span class=\"posted-on\"><a href=\"https:\/\/visualjournalism.de\/en\/magazine\/nachts\/grenzen-zeigen\/\" rel=\"bookmark\"><time class=\"entry-date published\" datetime=\"2025-07-16T07:07:07+02:00\">16.07.2025<\/time><\/a><\/span> <span class=\"meta-text\"> Video von Cora Trinkaus, Kristina Kaysen und Mayla L\u00fcst<\/span><\/div><!-- .entry-meta -->\r\n    <\/div>\n\n\n\n\r\n<div class=\"video-block has-spacing--m align--left\">\r\n    <div class=\"video-wrapper size--full\">\r\n        <iframe loading=\"lazy\" hcb-fetch-image-from=\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/1101761516?share=copy\" title=\"Grenzen zeigen\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/1101761516?dnt=1&amp;app_id=122963\" width=\"100\" height=\"56\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\"><\/iframe>    <\/div>\r\n<\/div>\r\n\r\n\n\n\n<p class=\"post__paragraph has-spacing--default\"><strong>\u00abMan hat eigentlich keine Sicherheit als Frau im Club\u00bb<\/strong>, sagt Selma. Sie spricht ruhig, aber bestimmt. Wer sie sieht, wie sie G\u00e4ste empf\u00e4ngt, Taschen kontrolliert und h\u00f6flich aber konsequent Regeln durchsetzt, versteht schnell: Diese Frau wei\u00df, was sie tut \u2013 und wo ihre Grenzen liegen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"post__paragraph has-spacing--xs\">Selma ist seit 1999 im Sicherheitsdienst t\u00e4tig. Mit 18 wurde sie gefragt, ob sie sich den Job zutraut. \u00abIch habe viel Kampfsport gemacht \u2013 und ja, ich habe es mir zugetraut.\u00bb Heute arbeitet sie unter der Woche in einer Kita, an den Wochenenden steht sie an der T\u00fcr eines Clubs. Zwei Welten, die sich f\u00fcr sie nicht ausschlie\u00dfen. Im Gegenteil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"post__paragraph has-spacing--m\">\u00abGerade als Frau wird man nicht immer ernst genommen\u00bb, sagt sie. \u00abAber man muss seine Grenzen klar zeigen.\u00bb Die Clubt\u00fcr ist nicht nur Eingang zur Nacht, sondern auch Schauplatz von Konflikten, Grenz\u00fcberschreitungen \u2013 und manchmal existenziellen Erfahrungen. \u00abEinmal ist ein Mensch auf der Tanzfl\u00e4che gestorben. Ich hatte ihn kurz vorher noch tanzen gesehen.\u00bb F\u00fcr Selma war das ein Einschnitt. \u00abMan braucht innere St\u00e4rke, um zu sagen: Ich habe mein Bestes gegeben \u2013 und mehr ging einfach nicht.\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"devider has-spacing--none\">\n    <hr>\n<\/div>\n\n\n \n    \n    <div id=\"quote-block_23de9494ec750a3d840528ff619eff92\" class=\"block-quote has-spacing--m\">\n        <figure class=\"quote\">\n            <blockquote>\n                <p><strong>Gerade als Frau<\/strong> wird man nicht immer ernst genommen.<\/p>\n            <\/blockquote>\n\n            <figcaption>\n\n                            <span><\/span>\n            <\/figcaption>\n            \n        <\/figure>\n    <\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"post__paragraph has-spacing--default\">Wenn es eskaliert, begegnet sie Streitenden mit Ruhe. \u00abKeine Angst zu zeigen, ist wichtig. Wer ruhig bleibt, kriegt mehr deeskaliert als jemand, der laut reinpoltert.\u00bb Dabei sind es oft die kleinen S\u00e4tze, die h\u00e4ngen bleiben. \u00abSie riechen gut, die Herren\u00bb, sagt sie zu zwei Clubbesuchern \u2013 mit einem L\u00e4cheln, das zugleich klar macht: Die Regeln gelten trotzdem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"post__paragraph has-spacing--default\">Der Job ist belastend. Und trotzdem kann sie nicht loslassen. \u00abIch habe schon tausendmal \u00fcberlegt aufzuh\u00f6ren\u00bb, sagt sie. \u00abAber so ganz von mir lassen \u2013 das kann ich nicht.\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-spacing--default has-spacing--default\">\n<div class=\"devider has-spacing--none\">\n    <hr>\n<\/div>\n\n\n \n\n    <div id=\"lead-in-block_fb0c7804c294f7c8e077e20fc279a936\" class=\"block-lead-in typo--default font-size--xl has-spacing--s width--default\">\n        <p><strong>Recommended by the editors:<\/strong><\/p>\n    <\/div>\n\n\n\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n        <div class=\"teaser-grid grid-layout--3col has-spacing--s width--inline\">\r\n\r\n            \r\n                <article class=\"post-teaser\">\r\n\r\n                    <a href=\"https:\/\/visualjournalism.de\/en\/magazine\/masculinity\/being-gay-is-not-a-choice\/\" rel=\"permalink\">\r\n\r\n                        <div class=\"post-teaser__content\">\r\n\r\n                            <span class=\"entry-categories\">Masculinity<\/span>\r\n                            <h3 class=\"post-teaser__headline\">\r\n                                \u2018Being gay is not a choice\u2019                            <\/h3>\r\n\r\n                            <div class=\"post-teaser__excerpt\">\r\n                                <p>Dirk and Thomas came out to their families only recently. 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